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A friend of mine was on a first date with a womanwho mentioned she was also dating a married man.
我一個朋友和一個女人第一次約會,她同時在和一個已婚男人約會。
He immediately told her there wouldn't be a seconddate, because if she didn't like herself enough to bein a proper relationship, why should he?
他馬上告訴她,不會有第二次見面,因為如果她這么不自愛,不想好好談一場戀愛,他為什么要呢?
What You Should Have Learned in This Chapter
你應(yīng)從本章中學到什么
He's married.
他結(jié)婚了。
Unless he's all yours, he's still hers.
除非他是你的了,要不然他還是她的。
There are cool, loving single men in the world. Find one of them to go out with.
世上有不少可愛的單身好男人。跟他們其中一個出去約會。
If a guy is yelling about his ex-wife or crying over his last girlfriend, try to find someone else totake you to the movies.
如果一個家伙不停地在抱怨他的前妻,或哭著說他的上一個女友,去找別人和你看電影吧。
He's married.
他結(jié)婚了。
Don't be that girl.
別做那個女孩。
You are not easily forgotten. Let him find you when he's ready.
你沒那么容易忘記。讓他準備好了再來找你。
Our Super-Good Really Helpful Exercise
我們超級有用的練習
Think of at least five things you want or have ever wanted in a man. We'll wait...
列出至少五項你對一個男人所有的期待。我們會耐心等待…
Now, did "married" or "emotionally unavailable" make that list?
好,“已婚”或“情感上不可得”在單子上嗎?
Yeah, we didn't think so. You're far too classy and smart for that.
我們不認為它在。你比這可要更有品位,也更聰明。