勇敢做自己帶來的改變

　　5.你的自信將會展現(xiàn)出來

　　"Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement.Nothing can be done without hope and confidence." – Helen Keller

　　"樂觀是通往成功的真諦，缺乏希望和自信將一事無成。" ——海倫·凱勒

　　When you love who you are and have no problem with who you are, confidence Is guaranteedto show up. Lack of confidence shows up when you're happy with yourself, your character, andbecause you feel inadequate. But someone who loves who they are, and goes about this dailyhas an unstoppable amount of self confidence. And that's attractive which ever way you slicethe cake!

　　當(dāng)你愛真正的自己，且覺得自己現(xiàn)在一切都好時，你就有自信了。正是因為你覺得自己不夠好，所以才對自身和性格感到不滿足，進而缺乏自信。但那些愛自己的人，在日常生活中會有源源不斷的自信心。這樣一來，不管你用什么方式展現(xiàn)自己，你都會非常有魅力!

　　4.Nobody can hold anything against you

　　4.沒有人可以反駁你

　　If you know you're speaking your truth and nothing but your truth, nobody can hold thatagainst you. It's not possible. People will only hold something against you If you give themreason to, or If there's blatant proof. Be yourself, keep it real, speak your truth, then nobodywill be able to hold anything against you. No matter what!

　　如果你說的是真話，那么，沒有人能反駁你，也根本不可能想要反駁你。只有當(dāng)你給他們的理由或證據(jù)太過蒼白無力時，他們才會跟你辯駁。請做自己，信守真誠，堅持說真話，那么不管發(fā)生什么事情，都不會有人跟你唱反調(diào)!

　　3.You won't have anything to prove

　　3.你將不需要證明任何東西

　　If you have to prove your honesty to somebody, chances are you've already lost the battle.When you have to prove something It usually means you're not capable of doing it. When youknow who you are and what you stand for, trying to Impress others Is irrelevant. Leave the"proving" to those who feel It's necessary.

　　如果你必須向某人證明你的誠信，那么，你可能已經(jīng)失去別人對你的信任了;如果你必須要證明一些東西，那么，這也就意味著你難以成事了。當(dāng)你清楚你是誰以及你代表著什么的時候，你才不會把別人看得那么重要，而"證明"，就留給那些覺得有必要的人吧!

　　2.You'll attract the right friends

　　2.你將會吸引志趣相投的朋友

　　If you go through your whole life feeling like a faker, being a faker, and living a lie, your friendswill reflect that. Like they say, you are what you're around and there's a lot of truth to that. Ifyou want to have honest friends who aren't afraid to keep it real, maybe you need to work onyourself first. Only then will you attract the right friends. If you're already honest as it is, butyour friends are the opposite, maybe you need to meet some new people.

　　如果你覺得自己這輩子都像個騙子一樣謊話連篇，那么，你的朋友也會滿口胡言。正如人們所說，物以類聚，人以群分，事實也確實如此。如果你想要擁有能夠直面真理、內(nèi)心坦蕩的朋友，或許你就得先讓自己成為這樣的人。只有當(dāng)你敢于面對現(xiàn)實時，你才能夠吸引真正的朋友。如果你是一個能夠正視現(xiàn)實的人，而你的朋友們恰恰相反，那么，你也許需要結(jié)交新朋友了。

　　1.You'll be happier

　　1.你將會更加開心

　　"If you want to be happy, be." – Leo Tolstoy

　　"如果你想要變開心，那就去做吧。" ——列夫托爾斯泰

　　The most happy years in my life, including today, have been a result of doing the things I wantto do. Being the person I'm meant to be. Doing the things I believe in. And most importantly,being honest with myself. If you're constantly doing things to make others happy, but notyourself, you're bound to stress yourself out. You've got to put your happiness first beforeanything else.

　　從以前到今時今日，我這一生之所以快樂，皆因我做了自己真正想做的事情，成為自己想要成為的那個人，在做自己相信的事情，而最重要的是，我忠于自己。如果你總是去做會讓別人開心而不會讓自己開心的事情，那么你一定會把自己折磨死。你一定要將自己的快樂擺在首位，其他事情則次之。