勵(lì)志演講：享受生活比追求成功更重要

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Success isoverrated.

成功被高估了。

I knew all these motivational guys, the gurus, they're gonna be salty. They say "Go! Go! Go! Hustle hard,skip sleep, make money.

我知道這些鼓舞人心的家伙，大師們，他們會(huì)很有趣。他們說(shuō)“走！快走快走努力工作，不睡覺(jué)，賺錢(qián)。

That's cool! It has its placebut all of that takes second priority to enjoying your lifeto loving the people around you'cause let me tell you this.

這很酷！它占有一席之地，但是所有這一切都比享受您的生活更重要，要愛(ài)護(hù)您周圍的人，讓我告訴您這一點(diǎn)。

the death of all these celebrities,the death of the people around me really got me thinking about how shortlifeis.

名人的離世以及我周圍人的去世，真的讓我開(kāi)始思考生命是何其短暫。

and if you listen to these guys who say "Go, go, go",you're going to misswhat's important. you're gonna find yourself climbing up a ladderand if you get to the top, that's if, you get to the topyou're gonna realize dang...

如果你聽(tīng)這些家伙說(shuō)“走，走，走”，你將錯(cuò)過(guò)重要的事情。你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)自己爬上了梯子。如果你到達(dá)頂部，到達(dá)頂部，你就會(huì)意識(shí)到...真他么該死。

it was really against the wrong wall,I promise you there are a lot of successful people in the graveyard right now.

真的是打錯(cuò)了算盤(pán)，我向你保證墓地里此刻躺著很多成功的人。

That would happily, I guarantee you, happily give anything to beAbove-ground one more day so that they can tell their family, to tell their friends, that they love them. Just one more time.

我向你保證，如果再多給他們一天活著的時(shí)間，他們會(huì)很高興的再一次告訴他們的家人，他們的朋友，他愛(ài)他們。

Because that's what's important as the old saying goes"There has never been a deathbed regret. That went "Boy, Iwish I'd spent more time in the office." Or "Boy, I wish I spent more time hustling". Or "Boy,I wish I spent more time making more money." It was Jack Kornfield who said "In the end;only three things really matter.

因?yàn)檫@就是俗話所說(shuō)的重要所在：“從來(lái)沒(méi)有臨終前的遺憾“。那就是“天哪，我希望我能在辦公室里花更多的時(shí)間。”或“天啊，我希望我花更多的時(shí)間來(lái)忙碌?！被蛘?“天哪，我希望我能花更多的時(shí)間賺更多的錢(qián)。”杰克·科恩菲爾德說(shuō)：“最后，只有三件事才是真正重要的。

1: How well we lived

2: How well we loved and

3:How well we learned...... to LET GO.

He didn't say how well we we built our bank accounts. He didn't say how well we we built our mansions.

1：我們活得有多好

2：我們多么相愛(ài)

3: 我們學(xué)會(huì)如何放手

他沒(méi)說(shuō)我們有多少錢(qián)，有多少套房子

He didn't say how well we built our social-media followings.

他沒(méi)說(shuō)我們交了多少朋友

You better wake up before his too late. I believe it was Shakespeare who said I've seen many unhappy kings

But many happy shoemakers.

你最好在他沒(méi)有反應(yīng)過(guò)來(lái)之前醒悟，我相信莎士比亞說(shuō)過(guò)，我見(jiàn)過(guò)許多不快了的國(guó)王，也見(jiàn)過(guò)許多快樂(lè)的鞋匠。

Zig Ziglar said "Everybody knows that money won't make them happyBut everybody wants to find out for themselves."

So listen to me brother, I'm not saying don't be successful

齊格·齊格拉說(shuō)：“每個(gè)人都知道錢(qián)不會(huì)讓他們快樂(lè)，但每個(gè)人都想為自己找到答案。”聽(tīng)我說(shuō)，兄弟，我不是說(shuō)不要成功

There's nothing wrong with financial success. But say I'm an entrepreneur myself. I like money.

財(cái)務(wù)上的成功沒(méi)有錯(cuò)。但是說(shuō)我自己是企業(yè)家。我喜歡錢(qián)。

In fact, I'm gonna tell you a secret. I don't think you can get too much moneybut if money getsyou.

事實(shí)上，我告訴你一個(gè)秘密，我覺(jué)得你掙不了太多的錢(qián)，但是如果你能讓錢(qián)生錢(qián)，那就不一定了。

That's too muchIf money becomes your godIf you make a million dollars, but lose your friends, and your family, in the process,Is that success? If you make a billion dollars,but lose your health in the process, is thatsuccess?

如果金錢(qián)成為你的上帝，那成本就太大了。如果你賺了一百萬(wàn)美元，卻在這個(gè)過(guò)程中失去了你的朋友和家人，這是成功嗎？如果你賺了10億美元，但在這個(gè)過(guò)程中失去了健康，這是成功嗎？

These guys talk about don't sleep what you mean "Don't sleep". What do you mean "Don't sleep?" Sleep is more important in your diet andexercise program combined. You can't think clearly if you don't sleep.

這些家伙說(shuō)不要睡覺(jué)，你的意思是“不要睡覺(jué)”。你說(shuō)“不睡覺(jué)”是什么意思，睡眠在你的飲食和鍛煉計(jì)劃中非常重要。如果你不睡覺(jué)，你就不能清晰的思考。

It talking about I sleep when I'm dead. No, you'll be dead if you don't sleep. The DAMAhimself, he said "ManSacrifices his health to build up his money. And then mansacrifices his money to rebuildhis health."

他們說(shuō)死后自會(huì)長(zhǎng)眠，胡說(shuō)，不睡覺(jué)你就會(huì)死，大媽說(shuō)人年輕的時(shí)候用健康換錢(qián)，老了又用錢(qián)來(lái)?yè)Q健康。

You ever felt bad for enjoying yourself? Like "Oh I should be doing this,I should be doing that." But you should be doing exactly what you're doingnow, fully. Whether that's that's watching a movie. Whether that's, enjoying a night out with friends,you should be doing that fully.

你迷茫過(guò)嗎？就像”哦，我應(yīng)該這樣做，應(yīng)該那樣做，“你應(yīng)該踏踏實(shí)實(shí)的做你該做的，看一場(chǎng)電影，或者和朋友好好享受一個(gè)美好的夜晚，你應(yīng)該認(rèn)真的做這些，

Don't let these guys, these gurus, guilt trip you out of enjoying your life, or taking care of you.

不要為那些神棍的罪行感到難過(guò)，從而是你無(wú)法享受自己的生活和充實(shí)自己。

Don't let your ambitionbecome your prisonImagine you grind hard every day for years and you finally get the dream caryou always wanted, but you don't have anybody in that passenger seat to ride with you.

不要讓你的雄心壯志變成你的監(jiān)獄，想象你多年來(lái)每天努力工作，終于得到了你一直夢(mèng)寐以求的汽車，但你不會(huì)讓任何人坐在副駕駛座上和你一起享受你的成果。

You're driving so fast, you don't even appreciate the breezeblowing through your hair.

你開(kāi)的太快了，都無(wú)暇顧及微風(fēng)輕拂你的頭發(fā)。

Your hand you better slow down.Slow down and enjoy this thing called life.Enjoy the moments. You only have a limited number of them.

慢下來(lái)，慢下來(lái)，享受這個(gè)叫做生活的東西，享受這個(gè)時(shí)刻，你的生活是有限的。

Stop always grinding. See when you're grinding, you're going to get something. You need to flow with life.

別老是磨磨蹭蹭，當(dāng)你磨蹭的時(shí)候，你本可以得到更多的東西，你需要充實(shí)的生活。

Flow. Stop and smell the flowers and give other people the flowers while they, still smell them. Because in the end...

充實(shí)的生活，停下來(lái)問(wèn)一問(wèn)花香，贈(zèng)與別人同享，因?yàn)樽罱K····

only three things truly matter.How well we lived, how well we loved, and how well we learnedto let go.

只有三件事最重要，我們活的多好，我們愛(ài)的多深，我們?nèi)绾螌W(xué)會(huì)放手。