Jodie Turner-Smith sees the end of her marriage as a “brave” decision, no matter what the internet has to say about it.
朱迪·特納-史密斯認(rèn)為結(jié)束婚姻是一個“勇敢”的決定，不管網(wǎng)上怎么說。
The Queen & Slim actress, who spent four years married to Fatal Attraction star Joshua Jackson, has opened up about the relationship for the first time since news of their split broke in October 2023.
這位女王和苗條的女演員，與《致命誘惑》的主演約書亞·杰克遜結(jié)婚四年，自從他們在2023年10月分手的消息傳出以來，第一次公開了他們的關(guān)系。
“I don’t think it’s a failure,” Turner-Smith told the UK’s Sunday Times in a new interview. “We obviously had such a beautiful moment together. And now it’s time for a new moment for both of us. And how exciting! The bravest thing in the world is to recognize when something’s not working and to make a move, and I always want to set that kind of example for my daughter.”
“我不認(rèn)為這是一個失敗，”特納-史密斯在接受英國《星期日泰晤士報》采訪時說。“顯然，我們在一起度過了如此美好的時刻。現(xiàn)在是時候為我們倆開創(chuàng)新的時刻了。多么令人興奮啊!世界上最勇敢的事情就是意識到什么時候行不通，然后采取行動，我一直想為我的女兒樹立這樣的榜樣。”
She continued, “The big takeaway is that this is about just as much love and joy as it has always been. This is only about taking a step forward into a better life for everybody involved.”
她繼續(xù)說道:“最大的收獲是，這和以往一樣充滿了愛和快樂。這只是為了讓每個人都能過上更好的生活。”
The couple share a 3-year-old daughter and, according to court documents obtained by PEOPLE, Turner-Smith is seeking joint custody with Jackson. Singing the praises of motherhood, the Acolyte actress maintained that their daughter's happiness remains the priority.
這對夫婦有一個3歲的女兒，根據(jù)《人物》獲得的法庭文件，特納-史密斯正在尋求與杰克遜共同監(jiān)護(hù)。這位女演員歌頌了母親的美德，她堅持認(rèn)為女兒的幸福是最重要的。
“Sometimes things we really want to work just don’t end up working. And that’s OK,” she added. “The most important thing is that you choose what’s healthiest for you and your family and definitely your children. There are so many different moments in our life where we look at ourselves and say, ‘Who am I and am I being true to that?’ If the answer is no, then you have to make a move because I believe that there are visible scars from staying in places that are not good for us. And they don’t just affect us, they affect everybody around us.”
“有時候，我們真正想做的事情就是行不通。這沒什么，”她補充道。“最重要的是你要選擇對你和你的家人，當(dāng)然還有你的孩子最健康的方式。在我們的生活中，有很多不同的時刻，我們看著自己，說，“我是誰，我是真實的嗎?”“如果答案是否定的，那么你必須搬家，因為我相信，留在對我們不利的地方會留下明顯的傷疤。”它們不僅影響我們，還影響我們周圍的每個人。”
Turner-Smith has largely stayed silent about the divorce, even amid online speculation about their relationship. Despite opening up about the situation now, she adds that she has no intention of engaging the social media chatter.
即使在網(wǎng)上對他們的關(guān)系的猜測中，特納-史密斯基本上對離婚保持沉默。盡管她現(xiàn)在公開了自己的處境，但她補充說，她無意參與社交媒體的討論。
“I’m not out here responding to everything that people say and people’s opinions because that’s a losing battle,” she said. “At the end of the day I am not the only person in the world going through a divorce. There are millions of people in the world who are going through what I’m going through and that’s something that’s amazing about the internet, that sometimes it can offer you community.”
她說:“我不會在這里回應(yīng)人們所說的和人們的觀點，因為這是一場必敗之戰(zhàn)。”“說到底，我不是世界上唯一一個經(jīng)歷離婚的人。世界上有數(shù)百萬人正在經(jīng)歷我正在經(jīng)歷的事情，這就是互聯(lián)網(wǎng)的神奇之處，有時它可以為你提供社區(qū)。”
Prior to Turner-Smith filing for divorce, the Times spoke with Jackson in April 2023. At the time he said, “We have an understanding of each other and have enough differences that it stays interesting. And then we have this beautiful baby — you literally create the manifestation of your love. It is impossible for me to look into the face of my child without feeling love for my wife.”
在特納-史密斯提出離婚之前，《紐約時報》曾在2023年4月采訪過杰克遜。當(dāng)時他說:“我們對彼此有所了解，但也有足夠多的差異，所以這很有趣。然后我們就有了這個美麗的孩子——你真的創(chuàng)造了你愛的表現(xiàn)。當(dāng)我看到我孩子的臉時，我不可能不感到對我妻子的愛。”
Turner-Smith previously revealed that her first crush was Jackson's Dawson's Creek character Pacey Witter. They first crossed paths at Usher's 40th birthday in 2018, an instance she once reminisced about on Late Night With Seth Meyers in 2021: "When I first met my husband, we had a one-night stand. We're in a two, three-year one-night stand now." The duo quietly tied the knot in 2019 and welcomed their daughter in April 2020.
特納-史密斯之前透露，她的初戀是杰克遜在《戀愛時代》中的角色佩西·維特。他們第一次相遇是在2018年亞瑟40歲生日的時候，她曾在2021年的《與賽斯·邁耶斯深夜秀》中回憶起這件事:“當(dāng)我第一次見到我丈夫的時候，我們有過一夜情。我們現(xiàn)在處于兩三年的一夜情狀態(tài)。”這對夫婦于2019年悄悄結(jié)婚，并于2020年4月迎來了他們的女兒。
