人一定要結(jié)婚嗎 Should We all Need to Get Married?

In the traditional view that everyone’s life is the same. After they were born in the world, they need to grow up, go to school, get a job, get married, have babies and then grow old. Most people always obey the regular until the third step. Nowadays, more and more people are not in the relationship of marriage when their age should be. Then they will be criticized of single. Should we really need to get married when we are at that age? I don’t think so. The reasons are as follow.

在傳統(tǒng)的觀念中每個(gè)人的生活都是一樣的。在他們出生之后，他們要做的就是長(zhǎng)大，上學(xué)，工作，結(jié)婚，生小孩然后慢慢變老。大部分人都是按著這個(gè)規(guī)律走，直到第三步。現(xiàn)在越來(lái)越多的適齡男女并沒(méi)有結(jié)婚。之后這些人就會(huì)因其單身狀態(tài)而遭到大家的批判。我們真的應(yīng)該因?yàn)槟昙o(jì)到了就一定要結(jié)婚嗎?我并不這樣認(rèn)為。理由如下。

On the one hand, marriage is a long life thing, and everyone has the right to choose the one they believe that they are willing to accompany forever. Every combination should on the foundation of happiness. Before they find the one, they don’t need to find a whatever to build a family. After all, choosing a wrong person won’t be happy. It is no need to do it.

一方面，婚姻是一輩子的事情，每個(gè)人都選擇那個(gè)他們?cè)敢馀惆榈接肋h(yuǎn)的人的權(quán)利。每一段婚姻的結(jié)合都應(yīng)該是以幸福為基礎(chǔ)的。在他們找到那一個(gè)人前，他們沒(méi)有必要去隨便找個(gè)人組建家庭。畢竟，選錯(cuò)了人是不會(huì)幸福的。完全沒(méi)有必要走到那一步。

On the other hand, as the purpose of marriage is to seek happiness, no one can say that single is not happy for sure. If a person is happy as they are single, there is no reason for them to head in an unsure relationship. In addition, being single for the whole life is not so bad, and it can be happy, too.

另一方面，由于婚姻的目的就是尋找幸福，也沒(méi)人敢保證單身就是不幸的。如果一個(gè)人雖然單身卻很幸福，完全就沒(méi)有理由一頭鉆進(jìn)一段不確定的婚姻關(guān)系里。而且，一輩子也并不是那么的糟糕，也是一樣可以幸福。

As far as I am concerned, happiness is the most important, not marriage. Everyone should make their decision depends on their own situation.

在我看來(lái)，幸福是最重要的，而不是結(jié)婚。每個(gè)人在做決定前都應(yīng)該根據(jù)自己的自身情況而定。