如果時間倒回到十年之前,
你會對你當(dāng)初的選擇做出哪些改變?
之所以我們會問到這個問題,
是因為,我們每個人都在想著人生可能會有的改變。
今天分享一篇來自于霍芬頓郵報的文章:
《改變你生命的四個問題》
我們無法回到過去,
也沒有必要回到過去。
下面這個四個問題,如果你能清楚仔細回答。
你對自己生命的審視,將更加透徹。
If you're seeking to reshape your life, reflect on the answers to these four questions to increase your awareness, expand your mindset, and change your outlook:
想要重塑你的人生,想一想這四個問題,提升認知水平、沖破思維邊界、改變世界觀。
What thoughts do you keep thinking?
你一直在思考的是什么?
If fear is the first element that's sparked in your brain, you will act on that fear and hesitate, unable to make sound, firm decisions. Visualize a different circumstance or scenario, one that's more in your favor.
如果你腦海里閃現(xiàn)的是恐懼,你便會對害怕作出回應(yīng)、會躑躅猶豫,無法堅定明智地做選擇。
To whom are you listening?
你聽誰的話?
Your best guidance will radiate from within. When in doubt, introspect: Are my choices satisfactory to me or to someone else? What do I honestly want to do?
最佳的向?qū)П闶莾?nèi)心的自然流露。疑心時分,要自省。我的選擇于我有利還是于人有利?我內(nèi)心想做的究竟是什么?
What is your first reaction?
你的第一反應(yīng)是?
Have faith that regardless of what has happened, you will come out of it better than before. This allows you to reach a resolution to whatever problem may be at hand.
要相信,無論發(fā)生什么,你都可以安然挺過,結(jié)果會比以往都好。這讓你可以下定決心解決眼前的一切困難。
How do you regard others?
你怎么看待他人?
The more that you continue being a good, genuine person, the more you will be able to forgive those who have wronged you and find the right sort of company.
你越是堅持真誠友善待人,就越容易原諒傷害你、誤會你的人,還能找到志同道合的伙伴。