每個(gè)人都會(huì)經(jīng)歷這樣的時(shí)期:發(fā)現(xiàn)身邊那些親近的人開始變得有點(diǎn)煩了。
You suddenly realized that they've always been talking and talking.
你會(huì)突然意識(shí)到,長(zhǎng)久以來(lái)他們就一直不停地在說(shuō)啊說(shuō)。
They never stopped.
他們從來(lái)就沒(méi)有停過(guò)。
Some of us get angry with them, thinking they are trying too hard to intervene in our lives.
我們中的有些人,會(huì)開始變得憤怒,覺(jué)得他們對(duì)我們的生活介入太多。
But don't.
但是,請(qǐng)不要憤怒。
Only those who really care about you will bother saying so much to you.
只有那些真正關(guān)心我們的人才會(huì)費(fèi)勁對(duì)我們說(shuō)這么多。
It's just that maybe they don't know the right way to put it.
只是,他們可能并不知道正確的相處辦法。
Some of them push too hard because they care too much.
他們中有些人逼得太緊,那是因?yàn)樗麄兲诤酢?/p>
Some of them speak too much because they worry about you too much.
他們中的有些人說(shuō)得太多,那是因?yàn)樗麄兲珦?dān)心你。
They do this because they love you.
他們這么做,都是因?yàn)閻?ài)你。
So don't push them away.
所以,不要將他們拒于千里之外。
Just find a way to let them know what you truly want.
去找一個(gè)辦法告訴他們你真的想要的是什么吧。
And let them grow with you.
并且去讓他們和你一起成長(zhǎng)。
That will make both of you happy.
那會(huì)讓你們雙方都過(guò)得幸福。
Believe me.
相信我。