艾倫脫口秀372:想辦法解決問題
One of my girlfriend had a transgendered male friend
我一個(gè)女性朋友有一個(gè)變性后的男朋友
and I remember thinking you know he must feel like I do,but way worse
我想他的感受應(yīng)該跟我差不多 或者更糟糕
I knew we were like cousins,but I didn't get exactly toally,because I was still feeling ok
我知道 我們就像堂兄弟 但是我還沒有完全理解那種感覺 因?yàn)槲覍?duì)這種關(guān)系還感覺挺好的
and at that point I really,I just had this misconception that there was a part of the,you know lesbian community
對(duì)此我真有這樣一個(gè)誤解 以為女同性戀中有一部分人
that felt the same way I did that wished they were male
跟我一樣 希望自己能成為男性
and felt more male,but they weren't,so they dealt with it
以男性身份對(duì)待事情 但他們又不能 所以他們想辦法解決問題
Really? So you just assume everybody felt that way.No,no not everybody.But a small portion of the,of that community
所以你想每個(gè)人都是那樣想的 不 不是每個(gè)人 而是那個(gè)群體中的一小部分人
And as I got older and started to kind of get out more,I realize you know what,that's not true
后來慢慢長(zhǎng)大 接觸的事物也越來越多 我就開始意識(shí)到那并不是正確的
I was at a party at somebody's house and there were a lot of gay women there
有次我在一個(gè)朋友家里參加派對(duì) 當(dāng)時(shí)有很多女同性戀
and I remember just kind of sitting back,listening to conversations and it really struck me like
我記得當(dāng)時(shí)我只是坐在那里 聽著她們講話 令我驚訝的是
all of these women,no matter how they are presenting themselves,have a really strong female indentity,and I never had that ever.Really,yeah
不管這些女人如何去表現(xiàn)自己 她們還是有很強(qiáng)的女性認(rèn)同感 而我卻從來沒有那種感覺 真的嗎 是的
So now,do you feel like you think,cause you are with the same girlfriend,for how long now
那現(xiàn)在你感覺怎么樣 你原來女朋友一直跟你在一起呢 有多久了呢
Six years.Ok,so she was with you as a women,she is with you now,right
六年了 你還是女性的時(shí)候 你們就在一起了 一直到現(xiàn)在也在一起 是的
Do you feel like have a different,like you think differently，you have a different relationship
你對(duì)問題的看法是否有所改變 是否覺得這段感情有變化呢
there are like subtle changes,utimately I am the same person,but yeah I do think a little bit differently.Like in what way
會(huì)有一些突然的變化 我還是原來的我 但我想我看待問題確實(shí)有點(diǎn)改變 比如說哪些方面
