27. Don't Spoil the Children 不要溺愛孩子
For many years, the "one couple, one child" policy has been carried out in China and it has proved to be an effective way to control the rapid growth of the population in our country. However, the advantages are often accompanied by some disadvantages. For example, the only child becomes the center or even the "emperor" of the family. In order to provide a bright future for the only child, many parents or grand parents show too much love to them. They do almost everything for their children to wipe away any hardship from them.
“一對夫婦,一個孩子”的政策在中國已實施多年,并且被認為是控制我國人口快速增長的有效措施。然而,弊端也隨之而來,獨生子成為了家庭的中心甚至是“小皇帝”。為了使自己的獨生子有一個美好的未來,許多父母和祖父母給予了他們太多的愛,他們甚至愿為孩子做任何事情而惟恐他們承受一些艱辛。
Yet, when the spoiled children grow up, many of them greatly disappoint their parents. Some of them even commit crimes. Who should be blamed? I think parents should teach their children to bear hardships and tell them the correct way to communicate with others. Only by correct education, can the children be useful in the future.
然而,當這些被寵壞的孩子長大以后,他們中的許多都會使父母失望,有的甚至還會走上犯罪道路。這到底是誰的錯?我認為應該教會孩子去吃苦,并且告訴他們如何和他人正確相處,只有通過正確的教育,孩子在將來才會變得有用。