情人節(jié)怎樣寫出你的愛(ài)？

First, sit. Letters take time.

首先，坐下。寫信是要花時(shí)間的

Letters have a rhythm. Letters must be written, and writing takes a while. Three lines can’t do the work of three paragraphs. This is not to say your letter must be long. Three paragraphs can do the work of three pages. Just give them some time.

情書是有韻律的。情書應(yīng)該是書寫出來(lái)的，而寫信要花點(diǎn)時(shí)間。三行文字的情書是不能和三段文字的情書相提并論的。這不是說(shuō)你的情書一定要長(zhǎng)。三段也可以起到三頁(yè)的作用?；ㄐr(shí)間吧。

Be loyal to the past you share.

認(rèn)真分享的往事

If your love emerged on a kayak trip, then you don’t just mention that experience — you make it. Let the river become your palette. Tell a story that only the two of you know. Or narrate a moment in which she was unaware that you were watching her. Use detail to show what you remember and that you remember.

如果你是在一次獨(dú)木舟之旅遇到你的愛(ài)情的，那么你就不要只提那次經(jīng)歷了，讓那條河流成為你的調(diào)色板，在你的筆下再創(chuàng)造一次那樣的經(jīng)歷。講述一個(gè)只有你們兩個(gè)人知道的故事?；蛘呙枋鲆粋€(gè)她沒(méi)有留意到你在注視著她的時(shí)刻。使用細(xì)節(jié)來(lái)展示你記住的美麗往事。

Let the example precede sentiment.

先舉例后動(dòng)情

A good love letter declares itself plainly, then illustrates particularly. “I saw you watching the men play chess in the park. So quiet. I love the way you look at things.” Show her what you love in her before you tell her what you love in her. Show, then tell.

一封好的情書本身既能簡(jiǎn)單地說(shuō)明，也能具體地描述。“我看到你在公園里看他們下國(guó)際象棋。很安靜。我喜歡你看東西時(shí)的那種表現(xiàn)。”在你告訴她哪些方面惹你喜歡之前，先向她展現(xiàn)你喜歡她的那些地方。先展示，然后再說(shuō)。

Don’t repeat yourself.

不要老重復(fù)

Emotional declarations matter more if you space them a little. Even in a short letter, you must create room. With love, there’s value in scarcity. That’s why it feels like such a jackpot.

情緒表達(dá)更重要，如果你給它們騰出一點(diǎn)空間的話。即使是在一封簡(jiǎn)短的情書里，你必須要?jiǎng)?chuàng)造出空間。有了愛(ài)，貧乏中也會(huì)有價(jià)值。這也是最吸引人的地方，那感覺(jué)就像中了頭彩一樣。

Most of all, remember that it’s private.

最重要的是，記住，情書是私信

Say something that surprises you about yourself. Let her know that she is redefining your terms. In this way most, a love letter is like love itself. There must be risk.

說(shuō)一些能讓自己驚喜的關(guān)于自己的事情。讓她知道她要去重新認(rèn)識(shí)你。這樣的話，情書更像是戀愛(ài)，有一定的風(fēng)險(xiǎn)。