英語(yǔ)范文背誦精華 04.2 How to Tell When She Flirts with You
How To Tell When She Flirt With You
Flirting is an art form --it takes much practice to do it with perfect timing. It's often hard though, to recognize when a woman's flirting with you.
Women are masters of subtlety, so it's your job to remain aware of every gesture, every word, and every move they throw your way.
The women might simply be nice and friendly with everyone, and not flirting with you. If you see her often. at work for example, pay attention to how she reacts to others. If it'sthe same way she behaves with you, then don't get your hopes up.
The following flirting signs are good for all settings, whether ia a coffee shop, restaurant, nightclub, or at work.
Number 10: She keeps glancing at you. Are her eyes aimed at you every time you look her way? And does she avert her gaze whenever you catch her starting? If so, she might be interested in you. If she doesn't prolong eye contact, she's probably just shy. Go up to her, introduce yourself, and get her talking. You Know you're doing well when she is glad to be talking with you.
Number 9: She smiles at you. Many people force a smile when trying to be polite, but if she shows her teeth and has a sparkle in her eyes, then she's probably enjoying your company. Your only job is to keep her smiling by smiling back.
Number 8: She goes out of her way to get you to notice her. If she's always taking unnecessary detours to meet you, she might be trying to get your attention. And if she smiles at you on her way, she's definitely interested in you.
Number 7: She plays with her hair. Women's hair is a source of power and confidence to them-- why else would they get so depressed by bad haircuts? If you see her twirling her fingers through it or tossing it around like in a shampoo commercial, then she might be flirting with you.
Number 6: She starts the conversation. Taking the first step to start a conversation with you is a huge sign that she's interested. she says something to you that begs a response, like"You remind me of someone I know,"that's a concrete sign she's interested.
Number 5: She laughs at your jokes. When you tell her a funny story, does she just look at you and say, "Is that supposed to be funny?" If so, she's not interested in you. But if she acts captivated by your words you could soon be hearing wedding bells. Other reactions to look out for include "Really?" and "Wow" with the mouth opened in amused disbelief.
Number 4: She asks if you like certain activities. Does she ask you about your hobbies? Is she asking you if you like a particular pastime? Although she is not actually asking you for a date, it's an implied way of doing so. She could be paving the way for you to ask instead. If the activity in question is dancing, movies or dinner, then she is almost cetainly trying to ask you out.
Number 3: She pays you a compliment. Women rarely give compliments, so if she throws one your way, you can pat yourself on the back, Compliments are especially good if they are about your body, as this implies she is attracted to you.
Number 2: She makes sexual comments. Some women like to put themselves in the mood to ask someone out by talking about your topics that turn them on.
Number 1: She touches you. When a woman breaks the contact barrier during a conversation, it is a sure sign that she's interested in you. It can be as bovious as touching your arm or knee while making a point, or as faint as having her knees come into contact with yours under the table.
A les direct way of her showing she is interested is if she minorors your body language. When you lean in, she leans in. When you rest your elbows on the table, she does the same. Duplicationg your actions is her way of showing you that she's "in-sync" with you.
