外國人最想和你聊的文化話題：十二星座的約會風格

     Aries：Remember that the world doesn't revolve around you. Aries can often think about themselves first, after all, they rule the first house of "self". Be sure to find out what your sweetie wants, too.
     白羊座：白羊們要記住，世界不是圍著你轉。白羊座的人可能通常先想到自己，畢竟，你們是最"自我"的一類。但也一定要弄清楚你的情人想要什么。
     Taurus：Need to know where your partner is all the time or what they're doing can easily put you on damage control. When you get into a new relationship or begin dating someone, love without being possessive.
     金牛座：想要時刻知道你的對象在哪里或者在做什么，會輕易讓你時刻警惕著以防自己受傷。當你處于一段新的戀情或者開始約會某人時，用心去愛，但別想著占有。
     Gemini：You love to do the talking, but let your sweetie share some words, too. Be an active listener on your next date. Keep eye contact with them at all times, be sure to be empathetic and keep your focus on THEIR story.
     雙子座：你很愛說，但也要讓你的情人說上幾句。下次約會時一定要做一個積極的聆聽者。始終保持眼神交流，一定要投入感情，而且把注意力集中在"他們"的故事上。
     Cancer：Watch your mood swings around your sweetie, Cancer, especially on dates. Be careful you don't flip a switch at that restaurant or even worse do it to your server. Sometimes it can be more embarrassing to see your date be rude to your server than to you even. Watch your emotional energy and keep it in check especially in public!
     巨蟹座：巨蟹們，有情人相伴時一定要注意自己的情緒波動，尤其是約會時。一定不要在餐館鬧情緒，更不要沖服務員發(fā)火。有時候，看到自己的伴侶對服務員粗魯甚至比對自己粗魯更難堪。注意自己的情緒，并及時控制，尤其是在公眾場合！
     Leo：You have a great sense of selfesteem, but don't let your confidence turn to cockiness. Too many comments that are self-serving could make you seem like you're implying you're better than average. Keep it real, home slice! Your sweetie will prefer a more humble nature.
     獅子座：你有很強的自尊心，但不要讓你的自信變成自大。太多褒揚自己的話會讓你看上去是在暗示你自己比普通人強?，F(xiàn)實點吧，朋友！你的情人會喜歡更加謙卑的個性。
     Virgo：You like everything to be perfect, but when you're on a date, try not to nit-pick over every single thing to your waiter or sweetie. A dirty spoon or a fly in your soup are good reasons to call over your server. But to fuss over every little thing will most definitely be a turn off to your date.
     處女座：你希望所有的事都完美無缺，不過，當你約會時，注意不要什么事都對服務員或者你的情人進行挑剔。勺子臟或者湯里有只蒼蠅都是可以把服務員召喚過來的理由，但是對所有事都吹毛求疵的話，一定以及肯定會讓你的情人興趣索然。
     Libra：Avoid name-dropping! Scales love expensive and beautiful things. Even people who are associated with beauty and wealth can be a conversation of delight for glamorous Libra. Just try not to name-drop those jeans or that celebrity you know in every conversation.
     天秤座：別借別人來抬高自己！天秤們喜歡昂貴美麗的事物，就連那些和美麗、富足扯上關系的人都可以成為迷人的天秤座興致勃勃談論的話題。試著不要每次談話都要提到那些牛仔褲或你認識的哪個名人來抬高自己。
     Scorpio：You love passion in a relationship, and that's why sometimes you can move too fast. When you first meet a guy or girl, don't rush into intimacy. Rein that sexual energy in, folks! And get to know the person.
     天蝎座：你喜歡戀情里有激情，這就是為什么有時候你可能進展得太快的原因。當你第一次約見某個男子或女子的時候，不要急于親熱。把性活力控制在體內，伙計們！要試著了解對方。
     Sagittarius：Don't be flighty! You're truly a social butterfly and love to scatter your energy everywhere. Don't flake out on plans with your sweetie or a new date. This will most definitely be a turn-off because it will show you aren't reliable.
     射手座：不要舉止輕??！你的確是個社交花蝴蝶，喜歡到處揮灑自己的活力。在計劃你和情人或新的約會對象的安排時，不要玩得太過了。這百分百會讓他們興趣索然，因為這種舉動表明你不可靠。
     Capricorn：You're very responsible, Capricorn. You want everything to be in working order all the time and that can lead to an excessive amount of over explaining and even controlling situations. We realize you're being overly efficient, but half the time most people will tune out the information they don't need, so you're just wasting your breath. Keep it simple!
     摩羯座：魔羯，你很負責。你期望所有事情都時刻正常運轉，而這會讓你進入一而再再而三地過度解釋甚至過度控制的處境。我們發(fā)現(xiàn)，你說話的效率太高了，但有一半時間，大多數(shù)人會忽略他們不需要的信息，所以，你只是白費唇舌而已。說話要簡短！
     Aquarius：You can easily be wrapped up in causes for a higher good, because you're ruled by the planet that rules technology! When you're on date, don't open that PETA email that just popped up on your blackberry. Your sweetie will begin to think your messages are more important than them. Try to live in the moment, and leave your iphone or blackberry out of the picture for a bit.
     水瓶座：你會很輕易就武裝上更好的裝備，因為控制著你的星球也控制著科技！約會時，不要打開黑莓手機里剛冒出來的那封超大郵件。你的情人會開始認為你收到的信息比他/ 她更重要。試著珍惜約會的每一分鐘，不要把你的蘋果手機或黑莓手機牽扯進來。
     Pisces：Your dreamy nature easily allows you to be in your own little world. Sometimes your sweetie or crush could wonder if you're even listening. When you're on a new date or out with your sweetie, try to snap into reality. And be careful of wearing your heart on your sleeve too quickly in relationships.
     雙魚座：你愛幻想的本質很容易就讓你沉迷于自己的小世界。有時候，你的情人或迷戀你的人會猜想你是否在聽他們說話。當你開始一次新的約會或與情人外出時，試著快速融入現(xiàn)實世界。還要注意，談戀愛時，不要很快就表明自己的感情。
     Cultural events will be popular with the Lion in your life, as will gambling or anything exciting.
     涉及文化或是任何令他/她感到興奮的事都可以成為你與獅子座人約會的內容。
     Your Leo date will love dressing up to the nines, and needs to have an engaging and social event to attend.
     獅子座人喜歡把自己打扮得光鮮亮麗，這樣可以在赴約時顯得美麗動人。
     Don't forget the rich fantasy life that the Crab in your life possesses- put a little imagination into your efforts, whether that means more candles, incense and velvet table cloths, or perhaps a theme evening -French food, movie and music.
     不要忘了蟹子也愛做白日夢哦，那么在你的約會里加一點創(chuàng)意，比如多些蠟燭、熏香和天鵝絨的桌布都能給對方驚喜；邀請他/她去看電影和聽音樂會也是不錯的主意。
     Virgo will be embarrassed by splashy shows of money, and will be more impressed by value rather than amount.
     處女座不喜歡隨意揮霍錢財?shù)娜?，?她更容易被價值而不是數(shù)量所打動。
     Virgos also love animals, so a date that puts your Virgo in contact with them (like a trip to the zoo!) will earn you a smile.
     處女座還很喜歡動物，帶他們去動物園肯定也是不錯的選擇。
     Gemini's enjoy literary events, intellectual events and unique experiences.
     雙子座喜歡獨特且有深度的約會。