Recently, a piece of news reported that a girl and her boyfriend made a plan to kill her parents. Luckily, her father was alive for the wrong shot. When the policemen spend two years to make the truth come out, the family was shocked, because the reason was that the parents loved their daughter too much. The fact was that it was love made this tragedy happen. The parents had high expectation on their daughter. Since she was very small, she was sent to learn many skills. Everytime when taking the exams, the girl felt great pressure. She even lied to her parents, just not to let her parents down. The reason of love is many parents’ excuse to make every decision for their kids and ignore their feelings. If the kids resist, then the parents will say it is because of love. Love has become a great burden for many young people. Parents need to consider the kids’ feelings.
最近,新聞報(bào)道了一個(gè)女孩和她的男朋友做了一個(gè)計(jì)劃——殺死她的父母。幸運(yùn)的是父親由于沒射中要害而活著。當(dāng)警察花兩年時(shí)間弄清楚真相后,這個(gè)家庭感到非常震驚。因?yàn)樵蚴歉改柑珢鬯麄兊呐畠毫恕J聦?shí)上正是愛讓這悲劇發(fā)生。父母對(duì)他們的女兒有著很高的期望,打從女孩非常小的時(shí)候,她就被送去學(xué)習(xí)很多技能。每次考試時(shí),女孩感到巨大的壓力。為了
不讓她的父母失望,她甚至欺騙他們。愛是許多父母
忽略孩子的感受而為孩子做決定的借口。如果孩子們反抗,那么父母就會(huì)說那是因?yàn)閻鬯麄?。愛?duì)許多年輕人來說是一個(gè)很大的負(fù)擔(dān),父母應(yīng)該考慮孩子們的真實(shí)情感。