250.何時把他人的話反過來聽
何時把他人的話反過來聽?就是在他們散布流言之時。對于某些人來說,所有事情都是顛倒的:他們說"是"就是"不",他們說"不"就是"是"。如果他們批評某物,其實就是對該物作了最高評價。他們想得到某些東西,就對別人貶低那些東西。贊揚某物也不一定就是說它好--有些人為了避免表揚好的,就去表揚壞的。有的人覺得什么都好,其實說明他覺得什么都不好。
250.When to change the conversation
When to change the conversation? When they talk scandal. With some all goes contrariwise: their No is Yes, and their Yes No. If they speak ill of a thing it is the highest praise. For what they want for themselves they depreciate to others. To praise a thing is not always to speak well of it, for some, to avoid praising what's good, praise what's bad, and nothing is good for him for whom nothing is bad.