73.安然退避
安然退避。這是聰明人走出困境的法寶。機(jī)智地運(yùn)用一句巧言,他們就能從最錯(cuò)綜復(fù)雜的迷宮中脫身。用一句空話(huà)或一個(gè)微笑,他們可擺脫嚴(yán)肅的爭(zhēng)論。大部分偉人都擅長(zhǎng)此道。當(dāng)你必須拒絕某件事時(shí),轉(zhuǎn)換話(huà)題通常是最禮貌的方式。有時(shí)候,裝作不理解就是最高明的理解。
73.Utilize slips
Utilize slips. That is how smart people get out of difficulties. They extricate themselves from the most intricate labyrinth by some witty application of a bright remark. They get out of a serious contention by an airy nothing or by raising a smile. Most of the great leaders are well grounded in this art. When you have to refuse, it is often the polite way to talk of something else. Sometimes it proves the highest understanding not to understand.