2019年，管理好自己的工作、金錢、愛情

2019 feels impossible to tackle in your current state.

2019年都來了，可你還是對目前的狀態(tài)感到不滿。

So whether it’s a new job or new relationship, our crack team of experts explain how to win the next 12 months.

因此，無論是新工作還是新感情，我們的專家團(tuán)隊將告訴你如何贏得未來12個月。

Your job

你的工作

Ask for advice and tell your boss you want to progress - it could lead to more opportunities without having to leave.

向你的老板尋求建議，并告訴他你想獲得進(jìn)步，這可以給你帶來更多的機(jī)會，不必辭職啦。

Put the hours in. If you want to get a new job, it takes time. Do research in your lunch-break, get your CV in order, work in the evenings.

花時間下功夫。如果你想找一份新工作，需要時間。 在午休時間做研究，完成好簡歷，晚上工作。

DON’T apply for jobs if you haven’t got the skills or experience - you’re wasting your time.

如果你沒有相關(guān)技能或經(jīng)驗，請不要申請這份工作，這簡直就是浪費時間。

DON’T just say things like: "I’m a great team player" - prove it. Use your CV to give examples of why you’re a perfect match.

別只會說“我是一個很好的團(tuán)隊合作者”，拿出證明來。 在簡歷里舉例說明你為什么是這份工作的合適人選。

Pick a few jobs you really want and spend time making great applications. Don’t just fire off loads without thought.

選一些你真正想做的工作，花時間做幾份很棒的簡歷投出去。 不要想都不想就海投。

Your cash

你的錢

You wish one-click ordering had never been invented.

你真希望一鍵式訂購從未被發(fā)明出來。

So it’s back to basics.

回到基本吧。

"When people are exercising, they count the calories in and out - your finances are exactly the same," says Colin McDermott who runs the personal finance blog dumbfunded.co.uk.

“當(dāng)人們鍛煉身體時，他們會計算攝入攝出的卡路里 - 你的財務(wù)也是一樣的，”撰寫博客dumbfunded.co.uk的個人財務(wù)博主科林·麥克德莫特說。

He says it’s never been easier to keep track of how much you’re spending, thanks to new tech.

他說，多虧了新技術(shù)，追蹤你的消費狀況已經(jīng)變得前所未有的簡單。

Your love life

你的愛情生活

Normalise the situation, don’t jump to conclusions.

平常心對待情況，不要妄下結(jié)論。

Give yourself time," suggests relationship therapist Clare Prendergast. "Get back in a routine, do some exercise, start eating vegetables again."

“給自己一點時間，”情感治療師克萊爾·普倫德加斯特建議道。 “回到日常生活中，做一些運動，吃些蔬菜。”

If things in your relationship still don’t feel right, maybe it’s time to have a chat.

如果你們情感關(guān)系有什么不對勁，也許是時候該聊聊了。

"Don’t just pour out all of your anxieties. Talk about what this relationship means for you, where do you see this going?"

“不要只是傾訴你所有的焦慮。談?wù)勥@種關(guān)系對你來說意味著什么，你認(rèn)為這段關(guān)系可以如何走下去?”