你看起來為什么那么沮喪?
李: I fought with Paul again yesterday. We both mentioned divorce.
昨天我跟Paul又 開戰(zhàn)了。 我們都提到了離婚。
楊: First do you still love him?
首先你還愛他嗎?
李: I guess so. But he has so many problems which are small but make me angry.
我想是的。但是他有很多小毛病,經(jīng)常惹我生氣。
楊: Come on, if you still love him, you shall find a better way to get along with him?
得了吧,如果你還愛他,你就應該找一個更好的相處之道。
李: A better way?
更好的相處?
楊: Yes, first when he is playing computer games, please don’t go directly and turn off the computer unless your house is on fire.
是的,首先當他玩電腦游戲的時候,不要直接走過去關(guān)掉電腦,除非你們家著火了。
李: Oh, hard to do like that, but will try.
哦,很難做到,但是可以試試。
楊: Second you shall give him respect when staying with friends especially his. Man is sensitive about face
第二在朋友尤其是他的朋友面前給他面子。男人都愛面子。
李: Well,well….
恩,恩。
楊: The most important thing is that don’t force him to apologize. You shall only let him know he is wrong, that‘s all.
最重要的是不要強迫他認錯。 你只要讓他知道自己做錯了這就夠了。