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Wondering if the guy of your dreams dreams about you? Here’s how to find out.
You Will Need
Observation skills
Step 1: Limit the distance 由距離判斷他是否對你有意
When you hang out, watch his body language — men lean in when speaking with a woman to establish an intimate connection. Check if his hand brushes your body, which signals familiarity and comfort.
If a guy points his feet away from you, you may not have his full attention.
Step 2: Notice the nerves 注意觀察他是否緊張
Listen for rapid breathing — a natural reaction to the chance to impress a potential mate. Also, listen for laughter, which connotes comfort, and notice whether he speaks softly and slowly, which can indicate he’s letting his guard down and trying to display his gentle side.
Step 3: Look at how he listens 觀察他的傾聽方式
When you’re talking, see if he gazes into your eyes — it’s a sign of attraction. Does he ask questions that indicate he’s listening closely? That boy is into you.
If his eyes focus on your mouth, he might be avoiding eye contact, which might mean he isn’t interested.
Step 4: Find out from friends 從朋友那里獲得蜘絲馬跡
Get psyched if he asks you to hang out with his friends — it means he’s proud to be with you. When he meets your friends, see if he tries to impress them — if he’s into you, he’ll know their opinions matter.
Step 5: Get to the bottom of it 直接發(fā)問,弄清真相
Uncomfortable relying on your powers of perception? Just ask him if he’s into you — it may feel like some of the romance is gone, but you’ll get your answer.
An experiment found that men looked into the eyes of women they considered beautiful for an average of 8.2 seconds.
[重點講解]
intimate adj. 親密的;私人的
intimate relationship: 親密的關(guān)系
gaze vi. 凝視;注視
She turned her gaze from one person to the other.
她把凝視的目光從一個人轉(zhuǎn)向另一個人。
impress vt. 給予某人深刻印象
She did not impress me at all.
她沒給我留下絲毫印象。