積極人生與消極人生究竟有何不同？

每個(gè)人面對不同的事物都有不同的視角。積極的人和消極的人相比，對于同一件事可能會(huì)是兩種截然不同的態(tài)度。如果你是那個(gè)想要消除負(fù)能量，努力讓自己變得更加積極正面又有活力的人，那么今天小編就要向你推薦刷爆美國朋友圈的10種人生觀，看看積極與消極人的對比吧?

1. “Failure is part of learning.”

失敗是學(xué)習(xí)的一種過程。

Positive people view failure as an opportunity to learn and get better. Negative people are emotionally disabled by failure. They fail to understand that it’s part of the learning and growing process.

積極的人把失敗看成是學(xué)習(xí)和進(jìn)步的機(jī)會(huì)。而消極的人受失敗的影響很大。他們不明白這是學(xué)習(xí)和成長過程中的一部分。

2. “I can do hard things.”

我要迎頭而上。

Positive people love to be challenged. They understand that there is no growth without struggle. Positive people embrace difficulty, and look for ways to overcome them. Negative people love the easy road. Because obstacles increase the likelihood of failure. To negative people, hard times don’t make you, they break you.

積極的人喜歡挑戰(zhàn)。他們明白，沒有競爭就沒有成長。積極的人愿意擁抱困難，并尋找克服它們的方法。消極的人喜歡尋找容易的路。他們覺得障礙增加了失敗的可能性。對消極的人來說，艱難的時(shí)光不會(huì)成就你，只會(huì)讓你崩潰。

3. “I always give my best.”

我會(huì)盡我所能。

Positive people focus on giving their best effort, regardless of the situation. The positive person strives to give their best ---even if it isn’t much. Negative people want things to come easy to them. If they have to try hard, they believe they just aren’t good at it and give up.

積極的人專注于付出最大的努力，積極的人都努力做到最好---即使不多。而消極的人希望事情變得容易。如果他們必須付出努力，他們會(huì)覺得是因?yàn)樽约翰簧瞄L，然后放棄。

4. “What can I do better?”

我如何能做的更好?

Positive people embrace feedback. Because they are always striving to get better, they are open to learn anything that will enhance their skill set. Negative people get offended when they receive correction or feedback. Instead of seeing it as means to improve, they interpret feedback as a sign of their incompetence.

積極的人能接受意見。因?yàn)樗麄兛偸桥ψ兊酶茫麄冊敢鈱W(xué)習(xí)任何能夠提高他們技能的東西。消極的人在接受意見時(shí)會(huì)抵觸。他們認(rèn)為這是無能的表現(xiàn)，而不會(huì)把它看成是提高自己的方式。

5. “I give power to what I focus on.”

專注的力量

Positive people focus on things they can control. Positive people believe that they give power to what they focus on. Negative people center their focus on things they can’t control.

積極的人專注于他們能控制的事情。積極的人相信他們會(huì)把精力集中在他們所關(guān)注的事情上。而消極的人把注意力集中在他們無法控制的事情上。

6. “People can change.”

人們可以改變。

Positive people know that the only thing that doesn’t change is change. They believe that they can change, and that other people can change. Negative people believe that people are fixed; therefore, they don’t try to improve because they believe, “What’s the use?” Additionally, negative people don’t allow others to change. Once a negative person puts a label on something, it’s very difficult for them to see it in a different way.

積極的人知道唯一不變的是改變。他們相信自己能改變，其他人也能改變。而消極的人認(rèn)為人是固定的。因此，他們不會(huì)試圖改進(jìn)，他們覺得，“有什么用?”消極的人也不允許別人改變。一旦一個(gè)消極的人給某件事貼上標(biāo)簽，他們就很難換一種方式看問題。

7. “I still have a lot to learn.”

我要學(xué)的東西還很多。

Positive people love to learn. They understand information evolves. Negative people believe they know it all, and are less likely to welcome new information. They care less about what’s right, and more about who’s right.

積極的人喜歡學(xué)習(xí)。他們知道信息的變化。消極的人認(rèn)為他們了解一切，他們不怎么接受新信息。他們不關(guān)心什么是對的，更多是關(guān)心誰是對的。

8. “I am my own worst enemy or best friend.”

做自己的敵人，還是自己的好朋友。

Positive people have self talk. They are aware of the story they tell themselves, and don’t allow their own thoughts to discourage them. Additionally, they are realistic with their expectations. Positive people don’t feed themselves lies about their weaknessess. Instead, they tell themselves what they need to do to succeed. Negative people are their own worst enemy. They struggle to see the bright side of anything.

積極的人會(huì)自言自語。他們知道要告訴自己什么，不允許自己的想法阻礙他們。此外，他們對自己的期望很現(xiàn)實(shí)。積極的人不會(huì)為自己的弱點(diǎn)而擔(dān)心。相反，他們會(huì)告訴自己需要做什么才能成功。消極的人自己就是自己最大的敵人。他們很難看到任何事物的光明面。

9、 “You’re so good!”

你太棒了!

Positive people like to spread positivity. They pay close attention to when others do well. Negative people say, “Why would I compliment people for things they are supposed to do?” What they don’t understand is, it’s not about the compliment, and it’s about showing the other person that you notice them. A simple compliment can strengthen relationships and motivate the person to do even better. Positive people don’t underestimate the power of encouraging words.

積極的人喜歡傳播積極。當(dāng)別人做得好的時(shí)候，他們會(huì)密切關(guān)注。消極的人說:“我為什么要贊美別人應(yīng)該做的事情?”他們不明白，這不是贊美，而是向另一個(gè)人展示你，讓別人注意到。一個(gè)簡單的恭維可以加強(qiáng)人際關(guān)系，激勵(lì)他人做得更好。而積極的人不會(huì)低估鼓勵(lì)話語的力量。

10. “What is my body saying?”

我的舉止泄露了什么?

Positive people carry themselves like champions. They are purposeful in the way they interact with people and their facial expressions show positivity. Negative people carry themselves small. They hang their heads, and look down. You would think they are sad, indifferent and not happy.

積極的人會(huì)把自己當(dāng)成冠軍。他們在與人交往的方式上是有目的性的，他們的面部表情顯示出積極的一面。消極的人認(rèn)為自己很渺小。他們低著頭，向下看。你會(huì)覺得他們傷心、冷漠、不開心。

給生活一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)樂觀，用一句祝福的話叫做，是你的總會(huì)是你的，努力和收獲成正比，付出和擁有成正比。付出了很多，還沒有得到自己內(nèi)心的滿足，那么更應(yīng)該思考一下，自己對這個(gè)生活的訴求是不是有失公允，有失客觀，是不是一種奢望和奢求。